Good Manners

I am a drill sergeant when it comes to good manners.  As a result, I have been told on many occasions that my children are very polite.  I always breathe a sigh of relief when I hear this.

The question is why is this important to me?  With all of the demands we place on children-homework that starts in kindergarten, multiple sporting events, dance, etc. why do I add one more thing to “the list.”  It is critical to children grasping the concept that rules govern our society.  In my mind saying please and thank you is just as important as stopping at a red light.

I try my best to model good manners.  I compliment children who use good manners whenever possible to reinforce the importance of these skills. I think this helps every generation adopt a model of graciousness and kindness.

So on the eve of Thanksgiving, compliment the little people in your life for any sign of good manners.  The positive reinforcement will be worth the effort!

For more suggestions from Mary Beth Sammons check out this article.

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Joyeux Parenting

I am the proud mother of two beautiful children and have lived in Boston for most of my life. I have over twenty years of experience as a Child Development Specialist working with new families, pediatricians at Mass General Hospital, and Early Intervention. I have a wealth of knowledge and expertise regarding the challenges related to breastfeeding, behavior management, picky eaters, discipline, sleep, and development. I love being a wife and mother and sharing my experiences-the good, the bad, and the ugly. I am constantly learning about new evidence based information as it relates to parenting. Most importantly, I think it is crucial to recognize that we all make mistakes and learn from them. I am a firm believer that humor is essential as you navigate the world. Parenting should be full of joy and that is why I started my business Joyeux Parenting. Thank you for allowing me to share my experiences with you.

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